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How Does the Affordable Care Act Affect Seniors?

August 6th, 2010

How will the new health care reform affect seniors?

How will the new health care reform affect seniors?

The National Council on Aging recently conducted a survey of 636 men and women over the age of 65 and found that the majority of participants were generally uninformed about the effects of the new Affordable Health Care Act and how it would relate to the kind of health care coverage they would receive.

 

 

 

Providing quality care for seniors is pretty important to us. After all, it’s what we do! And anything that can possibly help our clients make important decisions concerning their long-term care is worth a second look. So we did a little research, and here’s what we found. (Just the facts please, ma’am!)

 

The new law does not cut basic Medicare benefits. Guaranteed Medicare benefits will not change.

 

The new law offers temporary assistance and attempts to provide permanent solutions for prescription drug costs. People in the Medicare “donut hole” (people who combined with their Part D plan have prescription drug costs above $2830 but below $6440, and therefore are responsible for paying 100% of their prescription drug costs) will receive immediate assistance. As soon as you reach the donut hole, Medicare will automatically send you a check for $250 to help with the costs. By 2011, those in the donut hole should only pay half of what their plan charges for brand name drugs. The new law also proposes to slowly phase out and eliminate the hole by 2020.

 

The new law attempts to offer better preventative care. Starting in 2011, Medicare recipients will be entitled to a free annual wellness visit and prevention plan. Some preventative services such as cancer and diabetes screenings will also be provided at no cost.

 

Medicare spending will continue to grow. But experts predict the new law will save money. The Congressional Budget Office (CBO), a non-partisan group responsible for cost estimates, predicts that the rate of growth will slow from 6.8% per year to 5.5% per year under the new law. They also predict that the new law will save Medicare about $400 billion over 10 years, extend the solvency of the Medicare Trust Fund until 2026, and reduce the budget deficit by $124 billion over 10 years.

 

Payments to Medicare Advantage plans will be reduced; possibly causing MA plans to make adjustments. The majority of seniors (about 75%) have original Medicare. Medicare pays about 13% more per person to MA plans. The new law will gradually reduce these payments, but will provide bonuses to plans offering high-quality care. In response to these decreased payments, MA plans may choose to cut extra benefits not offered with traditional Medicare, raise premiums, or drop out of the Medicare program. MA plans will not be allowed to cut any benefits that traditional Medicare guarantees.

 

Medicare will still not provide for long-term care, but will offer programs to assist lower income Medicare recipients with home care costs. In 2013, a new program called Community Living Assistance Services and Support (CLASS) will become available. Under this program, workers may choose to have premiums deducted from their paychecks. If you participate in CLASS for at least 5 years and become unable to perform basic activities such as dressing, bathing, or are diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, you may become eligible for a daily cash benefit. This benefit can be used to pay for anything that will help you stay at home, such as assistance from a Home Instead CAREGiver.

 

If you’d like to know more about the Affordable Care Act, you can read it in its entirety at http://www.gpo.gov/fdsys/search/pagedetails.action?granuleId=&packageId=BILLS-111hr3590PP , (before you open it, please note that it is around 2400 pages long). Or, you can check out what the National Council on Aging has to say about the new law at http://www.ncoa.org/public-policy/health-care-reform/straight-talk-for-seniors-on.html. And as always, if you have any questions about the kind of care Home Instead Senior Care can provide you, you can visit us at http://www.seniorcarelouisville.net or give us a call at 502-515-9515.

Kentucky Takes Strides Towards Better Home Care

July 15th, 2010

This month, we would like to take a minute and give The Commonwealth of Kentucky a big pat on the back! After hearing the demands of our aging and disabled population, they have recently expanded the new regulations governing personal services agencies. 

 

The original regulations, which went into effect January 1, 2010 under 906 KAR 1:180, required all personal services agencies to obtain certification from the Office of the Inspector General (OIG) and to perform both drug screens and criminal background checks on all employees. Home Instead Senior Care was thrilled, as both Brent and Becky Beanblossom had worked with other professionals including the Kentucky Home Health Association as well as legislators to get the certification passed.  While the regulations did not alter procedures much for the Home Instead Senior Care office, it has provided seniors and their families with much needed protection from agencies providing sub-par services. (To read more on the original legislation, check out this article from Business First Louisville.)

 

Home Instead Senior Care’s primary goal is to provide seniors with the best possible care and allow them to stay independent in their homes as long as possible. So we had our fingers crossed for something more. On June 4, 2010, after a public comment period, the newly expanded regulations governing personal services agencies went into effect. Home Instead is pleased to announce that our CAREgivers can now help clients self-administer their medications.

 

So what does this mean in terms of the care Home Instead can provide for the senior in your life? Well, let’s break it down.

 

Home Instead CAREgivers CAN…

-         Open the client’s medication organizer or single dose unit that has been pre-set by a family member or health care professional

-         Physically hand the medications to the client

-         Place the medications in the client’s hand or mouth

-         Assist the client with consuming their oral medications

-         Assist the client with ointment application

 

Home Instead CAREgivers CANNOT…

-         Administer eye, ear, or nose drops

-         Mix medications or calculate doses

-         Give injections of any kind

-         Provide breathing or nebulizer treatments

-         Deliver treatments through a tube inserted into the body cavity

-         Apply parenteral, rectal, urethral, or vaginal preparations

 

Just remember, our CAREGivers are there to assist you and our clients in any way possible. We can help clients self-administer their medications but medications can only be measured, dosed, or otherwise administered by a client, family member, or healthcare professional.

 

Home Instead Senior Care East Louisville is excited to be expanding our in-home services and hope that this allows us to better meet the needs of our clients and provide the quality care you’ve come to expect. If you’d like to read the new regulations in their entirety, you can view them at http://lrc.ky.gov/kar/906/001/180reg.htm. And as always, our knowledgeable staff is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Please feel free to call us at 502-515-9515 with any questions or concerns you have regarding the services we provide.

Cooking Under Pressure: Nutrition for Senior Adults

June 1st, 2010

Various issues, from medications and illnesses to memory problems and physical constraints, can interfere with a senior adult’s ability to maintain a balanced diet.  Seniors whose dietary habits are lacking typically have an increased risk of health problems.

Food supply, however, is not the issue according to a survey conducted by the Boomer Authority [www.boomerauthority.ning.com] for Home Instead Senior Care.  In fact, a vast majority of family caregivers say that their loved ones have enough food to eat.¬† Yet only slightly more than half report their senior relatives eat nutritiously.¬† There are indications that various factors are influencing a senior’s ability to achieve a nutritious diet.

Nutrition Adds to Family Caregiver Stress

The survey conducted by the Boomer Project discussed the role that nutrition and meal planning played in the family caregiver dynamics and determined that:

  • Nearly 50% of family caregivers spend 20 or more hours a week providing assistance, with the most common tasks being grocery shopping and running errands, followed by meal preparation.
  • Ensuring that a senior is eating properly is “very much a priority” for 86% of family caregivers.
  • Of the family caregivers who rated their lives as stressful, 67% were providing care to a loved one who had three or more nutritional risk factors, compared with 33% of caregivers whose relatives had fewer than three risk factors.

“Keep It Simple” Advises Chef Sam Mudd

Keeping it simple while using quick, delicious and healthy recipes is the best approach to enhancing senior nutrition.¬† Chef Sam Mudd, an instructor at Sullivan University in Louisville, KY offers this advice, “Prepare meals that are nutritious, but offer a good flavor that seniors enjoy.¬† Country-style cooking can be modified to be much healthier.¬† For example, just about anything you can fry can be baked.”

Chef Mudd and his wife currently prepare meals for his in-laws.  Previously, he prepared meals for his mother in order to help her stay in her own home longer.  With a desire to make pleasing meals for his senior family members, he has experimented with various recipes and types of food to encourage eating.  One-dish meals, such as lasagna or casseroles, are some of his favorites due to ease of preparation and leftovers may be eaten another time or frozen for future consumption.

According to Chef Mudd, take-out Chinese food such as Moo Goo Gai Pan or value meal salads and baked potatoes provide quick, healthy meals for family caregivers to provide for both their own families and senior parents. When asked his advice on cooking skills, he stated that, “A good, sharp knife is the best way to be efficient in the kitchen and it’s much safer than a dull one.”

Another favorite of Chef Mudd’s when planning meals for senior adults is JELLO. “It’s great.¬† It’s easy, seniors love it and you can add a lot of different ingredients to make it interesting and fun,” noted Chef Mudd.

At-Risk Senior Adults

Use of medications, illness and lack of companionship are some of the reasons seniors often do not eat properly.  Seniors may also find grocery shopping difficult, they may feel uncomfortable in the kitchen, or they do not have the skills necessary to maintain a well-balanced diet. Eating a healthy diet takes knowledge and planning.

Research conducted by the Home Instead Senior Care network of offices throughout the country found that over half (62%) of the adult children in the U.S. said that the older adult they cared for had three or more nutritional risks including:

  1. Three or more prescriptions or over-the-counter drugs taken per day
  2. An illness or condition that has caused the senior change his or her diet
  3. Weight loss or gain of more than 10 pounds in the last six months, without even trying

Poor diet can lead to an unfortunate cycle of declining health.  Senior adults whose diets are out of balance are at an increased risk for even more health issues.

Support from Home Instead

Home Instead Senior Care has developed an informational website [www.foodforseniors.com] that has material that can be downloaded.¬† One tool, “Cooking Under Pressure: Great Nutrition Tips & Recipes for Seniors”, provides useful information such as the following ten warning signs that an older adult is not eating properly:

  • Loss of appetite
  • Little to no interest in eating out (if the senior is able to go out)
  • Depression
  • Sudden weight fluctuation, loss or gain
  • Expired or spoiled food
  • Skin tone is not healthy and well-hydrated
  • Lethargy, or more inactive than usual
  • Cognitive problems, such as new concentration or memory issues
  • Taking more than three medications
  • Having suffered a recent illness

If you have any questions about nutrition for seniors, please don’t hesitate to call Home Instead Senior Care at 515-9515.

Chef Sam Mudd, a Louisville Native, worked his way up at some of Louisville’s finer dining establishments and has held the position of Executive Chef at the Galt House’s Flagship Revolving Restaurant, Executive West Hotel and Hunting Creek Country Club.¬† A founding member and officer of theKentucky chapter of the American Culinary Federation, he was recognized as Chef of the Year twice.¬† A full time instructor at Sullivan University since 2000, he works with new students to help them develop important fundamental skills.

Safe Use and Disposal of Medications

May 1st, 2010

As a non-medical home care company, Home Instead Senior Care is committed to ensuring a healthy and safe environment where our clients are able to thrive. Expired and unused medications can present a potential hazard to our senior adult clients in their home, wherever they call home. During the month of May, our public education and awareness focus is on the safe use and disposal of medications.

mission_medical_logo1According to Arcadia Healthcare, a national provider of home care solutions and medication management, the average senior takes four to six different prescriptions a day and refills their prescriptions 12 to 17 times a year. Additionally, 28% of all geriatric hospitalizations are attributed to adverse medication reactions.

‚The average person over age 65 can suffer from several health problems at the same time including arthritis, diabetes, high blood pressure, hearing loss, poor vision and many other health issues, most of which may be managed or controlled by medication,‚Äù said Lynn Harrelson, R.Ph, FASCP, a senior care consulting pharmacist based in Louisville, KY, ‚By taking several medications simultaneously, older persons may be at risk for unpleasant or unhealthy side effects and other medication-related problems.‚Äù

Senior Pharmacy Solutions,Harrelson’s company, specializes in monitoring the type and combination of medicines that are commonly used by seniors. Consulting pharmacists link a senior patient, their family members, doctors and other health care providers, opening the lines of communication to reduce the potential for negative drug interactions.

Medication Mysteries

‚Some of the situations encountered require a bit of detective work to unravel the mystery,‚Äù Harrelson said, ‚Colleagues refer to me as ‚Äòthe Sherlock Holmes of medications.‚Äô‚Äù

One such story involving a client, Harrelson recounts, ‚The elderly father of the family became non-functional and one morning, he became hard to awaken. Through discussions with the family members, it was determined that the father set up his own medication planner, his wife filled her own planner, and an adult child who was living in their home filled his planner.‚Äù

‚After making inquiries, it was discovered that, in fact, everyone in the household was mistakenly taking medications prescribed for other members of the family. The result for the father, unfortunately, was that he suffered from some fairly serious medical problems including some issues that involved his physical safety due to falls he was experiencing. The health conditions he had developed were reversible, but before the mix up of medications was discovered, each person in the family had to make additional, unplanned visits to their doctors in order to correct the medical issues caused by the errors.‚Äù

Another situation involving the improper use of medications was a client of Harrelson’s, a grandmother who was living in her adult daughter’s home and not gaining any relief from her pain medication. As the grandmother’s pain and discomfort increased while she was taking her medicine, her daughter and doctor became confused as to the cause. Harrelson discovered that a family member was not only stealing the prescribed pills, but replaced them with an older, harmful medication.

Harrelson is truly an advocate for the health and well-being of older adults, participating in public education programs and community-based events that promote medication safety. For the past six years, Harrelson has championed the semi-annual ‚Expired Drug Toss‚Äù, a systematic and monitored program that allows the public to legally dispose of their expired or unwanted medications.

Expired Drug Toss Spring 2010

Co-sponsored by Home Instead Senior Care, the Expired Drug Toss Spring 2010 is being conducted by volunteers, community groups and law enforcement agencies and was organized by Catholic Charities Senior Services, Kentucky Senior Medicare Patrol, Louisville Metro Police, Louisville Metro Solid Waste, Senior Pharmacy Solutions and TRIAD. Collection sites will be located throughout the Louisville, KY area:

§ Thursday May 20, 2010 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM - Our Mother of Sorrows Church at 770 Eastern Parkway

§ Friday May 21, 2010 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM - Family Health Center at 2215 Portland Avenue

§ Saturday May 22, 2010 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM - Belmont Village Senior Living at 4600 Bowling Boulevard

To ensure the safe and efficient disposal of medications at the Expired Drug Toss, organizers request that pills and capsules be placed in zip-loc plastic bags and vials immediately prior to bringing them to the site. Tubes and other liquids should also be placed in separate sealable plastic bags. Sharps, hypodermic needles, lances, cosmetics, personal care or hygiene items will not be accepted.

Medication Safety Tips

Arcadia Healthcare, which has created a system that organizes and dispenses prescriptions, over-the-counter medications and vitamins, offers these Medication Safety Tips:

http://www.arcadiahealthcare.com/knowledge-center-medication-safety.asp

§ When you receive a new prescription, ask your doctor

§ What is the name of the new medication?

§ What is it used for?

§ How should I take it?

§ How long will I need to take it?

§ What are the side effects?

§ How much does it cost?

§ Is there a generic equivalent?

§ How much does the generic cost?

§ Is there a difference in the performance/side effects of the generic?

§ Bring a current list of medications with you EVERY time you visit a doctor, even if other doctors have prescribed the medications.

§ Notify your pharmacist if you cannot open a childproof container.

§ Ask your doctor or pharmacist if it is okay to take non-prescription (over the counter medications) drugs with prescription drugs.

§ Keep all your medications in ONE place.

§ Keep all your medications in a safe, dry place, out of the reach of children. Be especially mindful of this when you are with children. Remember to secure any medicines that you carry in your pocket or purse.

§ Wash your hands before taking your medications.

§ Turn on the lights and read the bottle label before taking your medication. Ask your pharmacist to use larger print on the labels if necessary.

§ Take medicine as close to scheduled times as possible. If you miss a dose, consult your doctor.

§ If you have difficulty in remembering to take your medicines, talk with your physician or pharmacist about a reminder system.

§ Do not skip, double up or stop taking your medications before consulting with your doctor.

§ If you feel a medicine is causing side effects, call your doctor. Never stop taking medicine suddenly on your own.

§ NEVER save old medications for future use. They may weaken or change.

§ If the dose of a current medication has CHANGED, ask your doctor or pharmacist to re-label it for you.

§ NEVER SHARE OR BORROW MEDICATIONS.

§ ALWAYS take all the medication ordered by your doctor.

§ If you have allergies to medicine, food, etc., wear an allergy alert tag at ALL times.

Lynn Harrelson, R.PH, FASCP

Lynn Harrelson, R.PH, FASCP

Home Instead Senior Care of East Louisville and Oldham County interviewed Lynn Harrelson, R.Ph, FASCP, of Senior Pharmacy Solutions, for this posting. Harrelson has cultivated an extensive career in medication management systems and protocols for senior adults, includes serving in key clinical management roles for Fortune 500 health care companies. She is versed in quality measurements for long-term care pharmacy services such as the Joint Commission on the Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations (JCAHO) certification process. Harrelson, a graduate of the University of Kentucky College of Pharmacy, is a licensed pharmacist in Kentucky, Indiana and Florida.

Safe Use and Disposal of Medications

May 1st, 2010
 

 

As a non-medical home care company, Home Instead Senior Care is committed to ensuring a healthy and safe environment where our clients are able to thrive. Expired and unused medications can present a potential hazard to our senior adult clients in their home, wherever they call home. During the month of May, our public education and awareness focus is on the safe use and disposal of medications.

mission_medical_logo1According to Arcadia Healthcare, a national provider of home care solutions and medication management, the average senior takes four to six different prescriptions a day and refills their prescriptions 12 to 17 times a year. Additionally, 28% of all geriatric hospitalizations are attributed to adverse medication reactions.

The average person over age 65 can suffer from several health problems at the same time including arthritis, diabetes, high blood pressure, hearing loss, poor vision and many other health issues, most of which may be managed or controlled by medication, said Lynn Harrelson, R.Ph, FASCP, a senior care consulting pharmacist based in Louisville, KY, By taking several medications simultaneously, older persons may be at risk for unpleasant or unhealthy side effects and other medication-related problems.

Senior Pharmacy Solutions, Harrelson’s company, specializes in monitoring the type and combination of medicines that are commonly used by seniors. Consulting pharmacists link a senior patient, their family members, doctors and other health care providers, opening the lines of communication to reduce the potential for negative drug interactions.

Medication Mysteries

Some of the situations encountered require a bit of detective work to unravel the mystery, Harrelson said, Colleagues refer to me as the Sherlock Holmes of medications.

One such story involving a client, Harrelson recounts, The elderly father of the family became non-functional and one morning, he became hard to awaken. Through discussions with the family members, it was determined that the father set up his own medication planner, his wife filled her own planner, and an adult child who was living in their home filled his planner.

After making inquiries, it was discovered that, in fact, everyone in the household was mistakenly taking medications prescribed for other members of the family. The result for the father, unfortunately, was that he suffered from some fairly serious medical problems including some issues that involved his physical safety due to falls he was experiencing. The health conditions he had developed were reversible, but before the mix up of medications was discovered, each person in the family had to make additional, unplanned visits to their doctors in order to correct the medical issues caused by the errors.

Another situation involving the improper use of medications was a client of Harrelsons, a grandmother who was living in her adult daughter’s home and not gaining any relief from her pain medication. As the grandmother’s pain and discomfort increased while she was taking her medicine, her daughter and doctor became confused as to the cause. Harrelson discovered that a family member was not only stealing the prescribed pills, but replaced them with an older, harmful medication.

Harrelson is truly an advocate for the health and well-being of older adults, participating in public education programs and community-based events that promote medication safety. For the past six years, Harrelson has championed the semi-annual Expired Drug Toss, a systematic and monitored program that allows the public to legally dispose of their expired or unwanted medications.

Expired Drug Toss Spring 2010

Co-sponsored by Home Instead Senior Care, the Expired Drug Toss Spring 2010 is being conducted by volunteers, community groups and law enforcement agencies and was organized by Catholic Charities Senior Services, Kentucky Senior Medicare Patrol, Louisville Metro Police, Louisville Metro Solid Waste, Senior Pharmacy Solutions and TRIAD. Collection sites will be located throughout the Louisville, KY area:

  • Thursday May 20, 2010 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM - Our Mother of Sorrows Church at 770 Eastern Parkway
  • Friday May 21, 2010 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM - Family Health Center at 2215 Portland Avenue
  • Saturday May 22, 2010 from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM - Belmont Village Senior Living at 4600 Bowling Boulevard

To ensure the safe and efficient disposal of medications at the Expired Drug Toss, organizers request that pills and capsules be placed in zip-loc plastic bags and vials immediately prior to bringing them to the site. Tubes and other liquids should also be placed in separate sealable plastic bags. Sharps, hypodermic needles, lances, cosmetics, personal care or hygiene items will not be accepted.

Medication Safety Tips

Arcadia Healthcare, which has created a system that organizes and dispenses prescriptions, over-the-counter medications and vitamins, offers these Medication Safety Tips:

http://www.arcadiahealthcare.com/knowledge-center-medication-safety.asp

  • When you receive a new prescription, ask your doctor
    • What is the name of the new medication?
    • What is it used for?
    • How should I take it?
    • How long will I need to take it?
    • What are the side effects?
    • How much does it cost?
    • Is there a generic equivalent?
    • How much does the generic cost?
    • Is there a difference in the performance/side effects of the generic?
  • Bring a current list of medications with you EVERY time you visit a doctor, even if other doctors have prescribed the medications.
  • Notify your pharmacist if you cannot open a childproof container.
  • Ask your doctor or pharmacist if it is okay to take non-prescription (over the counter medications) drugs with prescription drugs.
  • Keep all your medications in ONE place.
  • Keep all your medications in a safe, dry place, out of the reach of children. Be especially mindful of this when you are with children. Remember to secure any medicines that you carry in your pocket or purse.
  • Wash your hands before taking your medications.
  • Turn on the lights and read the bottle label before taking your medication. Ask your pharmacist to use larger print on the labels if necessary.
  • Take medicine as close to scheduled times as possible. If you miss a dose, consult your doctor.
  • If you have difficulty in remembering to take your medicines, talk with your physician or pharmacist about a reminder system.
  • Do not skip, double up or stop taking your medications before consulting with your doctor.
  • If you feel a medicine is causing side effects, call your doctor. Never stop taking medicine suddenly on your own.
  • NEVER save old medications for future use. They may weaken or change.
  • If the dose of a current medication has CHANGED, ask your doctor or pharmacist to re-label it for you.
  • NEVER SHARE OR BORROW MEDICATIONS.
  • ALWAYS take all the medication ordered by your doctor.
  • If you have allergies to medicine, food, etc., wear an allergy alert tag at ALL times.
Lynn Harrelson, R.PH, FASCP

Lynn Harrelson, R.PH, FASCP

Home Instead Senior Care of East Louisville and Oldham County interviewed Lynn Harrelson, R.Ph, FASCP, of Senior Pharmacy Solutions, for this posting. Harrelson has cultivated an extensive career in medication management systems and protocols for senior adults, includes serving in key clinical management roles for Fortune 500 health care companies. She is versed in quality measurements for long-term care pharmacy services such as the Joint Commission on the Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations (JCAHO) certification process. Harrelson, a graduate of the University of Kentucky College of Pharmacy, is a licensed pharmacist in Kentucky, Indiana and Florida.

Understanding Excessive Hoarding by Senior Adults

April 5th, 2010

Roots of Compulsive Hoarding Disorder

According to the Anxiety and Stress Disorders Institute of Maryland (ASDI),¬† “Hoarding is usually considered a subtype of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Like other compulsive behaviors, hoarding is an effort to manage the anxiety raised by obsessive doubts. There are varying levels of hoarding behavior. A diagnosis of OCD of the hoarding type is made when there is significant distress or disruption to feelings of self-worth, interpersonal relationships, education, occupation, housing, finances, legal issues, or health as a result of hoarding behavior.”

Research conducted by A&E channel’s real life-based intervention show “Hoarder,” indicates that over 3 million people are affected with this pathological condition.¬† Melanie Stokes, owner of Louisville-based Intuitive Living, consulted with A&E in 2008 as they produced the first episode in this highly successful series.

“When someone tells me they have a collection, I ask them if it’s something they are proud of…something they want to share with others.¬† If they say “yes,” then of course we look at their collection together,” stated Stokes, “But if they shy away from showing off something or they are ashamed to disclose the nature of their collection, then I’d say that would raise a potential ‘red flag’ that there could be an underlying issue to investigate further.”

Condition Affects Growing Number of Seniors

Compulsive hoarding is on the rise, increasing as our population is aging, in part due to the culture under which many of our seniors were raised coupled with the conveniences of today’s technology.¬† According to David Dudley of AARP in an excerpt from “Conquering Clutter”, January & February 2007, “For older people the challenges of keeping clutter at bay take on a specific dimension. Depression-era mindsets about the value of manufactured goods have not adapted to the short shelf lives of today’s technology. That same technology is making it even easier, via the Web, to participate in the consumerist frenzy that is American culture.”

Dudley continues, “Meanwhile, household demands have grown in complexity as an array of vendors now deliver cable TV, Internet access, and cell phone service, and their accompanying monthly bills, to a home already lashed with a steady stream of junk mail. Add the inevitable health concerns, complicated medication schedules, and related memory issues that advancing age can bring on, and a once functional household can descend into chaos practically overnight. The dangers are both physical, a cluttered house is an obstacle course for people with limited mobility, and psychological. Particularly when the day comes that all that stuff has to go”.

Excerpt ASDI website: http://www.anxietyandstress.com/hoarding.html 
Laundry room of a person with Compulsive Hoarding Disorder.

Laundry room of a person with Compulsive Hoarding Disorder.

Warning Signs

Diane Carbo, an RN, geriatric care manager and author of articles pertaining to senior adult issues, notes that studies show that many elderly hoarders have been diagnosed with an anxiety or personality disorder.

Data shows that over 40% of people who suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) are known to be hoarders. Extreme cases of those with hoarding disorder will fill their homes with accumulations of junk such as newspapers, bags of old clothing and lists.  These individuals tend to experience anxiety, depression and social isolation.   One tool to help gauge the severity of the disorder is the NSGCD Clutter Hoarding Scale.

 

 

Characteristics of compulsive hoarding disorder:

* Related to Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
* Difficulty throwing things away
* Compulsive buying
* Picking up free, unneeded or worthless items
* Extreme levels of disorganization and clutter
* Intensifies over time with powerful emotional attachments to stuff

Health and Safety Issues

One of the biggest concerns about compulsive hoarding disorder are the ways the condition affects the health and safety of the person suffering from the condition.  According to a report issued by the Fairfax County Hoarding Task Force Annual Report, Fairfax, VA, Mar. 2009, compulsive hoarding creates undesirable circumstances such as:

* Dangerous living conditions compromising well-being
* Clutter overtakes sleeping, eating and hygiene, decreasing the quality of life
* Accumulation of combustible material, trash, food, and/or animals create serious personal safety, fire and health hazards and can cause disease, vermin or insect infestation
* In many cases clutter blocks or seriously obstructs doorways, windows, exit paths which limit escape during an emergency by the occupant as well as hindering the ability of public safety personal to get inside
* Hoarding cases almost always involve structural overload conditions leading to severe overstressing of structural members such as joists and beams.  

Treatment

Laundry room after eliminating clutter and organizing the area.

Laundry room after eliminating clutter and organizing the area.

While compulsive hoarders are less likely to seek professional help than those with any other mental health disorder, approaches to treatment may include:

* Collaborative therapy, which is a process that expands beyond the patient-therapist relationship to include professional organizers, coaches and social services to help process the connection between the emotional conflicts with physical things. A compassionate, professional approach must be developed in order to provide the opportunity for change.
* Medication can help alleviate the symptoms of conditions that may exacerbate hoarding, such as depression.  However, medication alone does not appear to help reduce the symptoms of compulsive hoarding.

Resources
National Study Group on Chronic Disorganization
Obsessive Compulsive Foundation
Anxiety and Stress Disorders Institute of Maryland
National Association of Professional Organizers

Hoarding: A Self-Evaluation*

As a quick exercise, answer all five questions below scoring each response with a ranking from 1 to 5. One (1) represents a response where there is no issue of hoarding to five (5) representing a response that may indicate a potential problem:
1.  Do you have difficulty letting go of a large number of personal possessions?
2.  Do you have an excessive collection of newspaper, magazine, clothing, household trash & animals?
3.  Does your clutter interfere with your day-to-day activities?
4.  Do you have cluttered pathways that make it cumbersome to get from room to room?
5.  Do you experience intense anxiety or distress attempting to discard or even thinking about discarding what most people view as useless?

Now add your scores together for all five questions, divide by five to arrive at your total score. Please refer to the key below.

Scoring:

5 - Don’t panic, but it’s possible you may wish to speak to a professional to learn more about compulsive hoarding disorder.
4 - Check the hoarding scale for additional details on degrees of hoarding.
3 - Start with one room or area at a time to begin to de-clutter your environment.
2 - It might be helpful for you to set a few priorities.
1 - All’s fine with your perspective on your “stuff”.

NOTE:  This self-evaluation is intended for general informational purposes only.  Neither Home Instead Senior Care or Intuitive Living make any claims of providing a diagnosis, which should only be rendered by your medical or mental health professional.
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Melanis Stokes of Louisville-based Intuitive Living contributed her expertise for this posting.

Melanis Stokes of Louisville-based Intuitive Living contributed her expertise for this posting.

Home Instead Senior Care of East Louisville and Oldham County collaborated on this article with Melanie Stokes, a professional organizer and member of the National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO) who specializes in organizing solutions.¬† Her clients at Intuitive Living include private individuals and corporations.¬† She often presents educational programs on organizing and creating stress-free environments to associations and organizations.¬† Melanie has been featured as an organizing expert in a number of Louisville publications including the Courier Journal, Today’s Woman and Business First.¬† She has provided her expertise to large local television audiences through shows on WAVE 3, WHAS 11, WLKY 32 and Fox 41.

Conversations with Paul Hogan

March 4th, 2010

"Stages of Senior Care" by Paul Hogan, Co-Founder & CEO of Home Instead Senior Care

"Stages of Senior Care" by Paul Hogan, Co-Founder & CEO of Home Instead Senior Care

I had the privilege to interview Paul Hogan, founder of Home Instead Senior Care, today about his new book, “Stages of Senior Care”. ¬†Paul founded Home Instead Senior Care in 1994 when his family was working through how they would care for his own Grandmother.

Paul said he has learned a lot about how to navigate senior care issues and wants to share his personal experience as well as that of other franchise owners with the community at large. He believes there is a lack of awareness about what is out there for seniors and how to navigate the process.  He said, about 80% of people don’t do any planning for senior care at all and additional research showed that most people believe Medicare and social security will take care of them for the rest of their lives.

In 1994 when Paul started his company and begin telling people about in-home care options, many believed that the only option available was to go into a nursing home. His new book, set to be released in November of this year, outlines: what the options are, how much they cost, and when different levels are appropriate. Paul is trying to provide a resource to the public to help them navigate this very complex multi-faceted decision process. The book is written in chapters that can almost be used like a workbook.

I asked him what he sees as the biggest challenge for the families as they begin the process of making care decisions for their loved one.  He responded that the toughest part is getting the conversation started, but close behind that is that families often need to deal with the denial that can accompany loss of independence.

Paul said he hoped the book would then give families a road map to help them navigate the challenge.  As the owner of a world-wide non-medical home care business, Paul also realizes the value of including other entities and organizations to complete the information in the book.  To that end, he asked 40 national organizations to contribute to the writing of this book.  He said that was important to bring in industry experts to get the best expertise possible for people who need it.

All the proceeds from the book will go to the Home Instead Senior Care Foundation. Since its inception, The Foundation has awarded grants in excess of over $800K.

Paul knows that Home Instead Senior Care is now in a very competitive industry and says she is proud to say the Home Instead Senior Care has literally “written the book” on senior care.

“Stages of Senior Care” is available for purchase at Barnes & Noble, Borders and Amazon.com.

The Parent Trap

February 1st, 2010

Boomers Help Mom & Dad Avoid a Home’s Potential Pitfalls

Baby Boomers may dream of owning a second home as they head into their retirement years.¬† But instead of caring for a vacation house, adult children often find themselves helping an aging mom and dad avoid the safety pitfalls of¬†the family home. There’s no doubt where seniors want to be as they age.

The majority of seniors polled in recent industry surveys - typically 90 percent - say they want to stay at home.¬† But in a 2007 AARP independent living study, two-thirds of Boomer women surveyed said they are concerned about their parents’ ability to live independently as they get older, with 43 percent being very concerned and 26 percent somewhat concerned.1

It’s a legitimate fear. “Many seniors and their families don’t think about the fact that homes must adapt to the changing needs of seniors as they age until an accident happens,” said Becky Beanblossom, owner of the Home Instead Senior Care office serving east Louisville and Oldham County.

“There are many potential pitfalls that we’ve seen during the home safety reviews that our company conducts before starting service in a client’s home. ¬†Our reviews cover 50 different items throughout a home including the entrance, living areas, kitchen, bedroom, bathroom and stairways. ¬†Important safety areas to highlight in a senior’s home run the gamut from accessibility to lighting to trip and fall hazards. ¬†A lack of attention to those details can jeopardize an older adult’s ability to remain at home,” Beanblossom said.

Many home safety improvements are simple and inexpensive, experts day.  Convincing seniors, on the other hand, is another story.  Danise Levine, assistant director of the IDEA Center at the SUNY (State University of New York) Buffalo School of Architecture, said that denial often comes into play with seniors.

Many adult children, and their parents, are concerned about safety in the home.

Many adult children and their parents are concerned about safety in the home.

“We see a lot of seniors who don’t want to admit they’re getting older so they don’t want to make changes in their homes,” Levine said.¬† “Secondly, consumer education is an issue.¬† If older adults do need help they often don’t know where to go or how much things cost.”

Those issues can result in seniors’ adapting behavior to their environment, creating a potentially dangerous situation,¬†said Levine, whose IDEA Center is dedicated to improving the design of environments and products by making them more usable.¬† “If a¬†senior has problems getting off the toilet, he could develop a several-step process of using a window sill, shower curtain and towel bar to get up.”

However, a windowsill and towel bar will eventually pull away and break, and a shower curtain will tear under the strain, creating the potential for an accident. Unfortunately, many home makeover changes are responsive rather than proactive, noted Peter Bell, president of the National Aging in Place Council, a Washington-based advocacy group dedicated to helping seniors remain at home.¬† “Too often changes aren’t made until someone has had a stroke or other type of condition that begins to impair their mobility,” Bell said.

“It’s a shame, too, because that’s a difficult time to be making a renovation.” Bell said that it’s important for a senior-care professional to conduct a home review to identify various safety pitfalls from poor lighting to the need for adaptive devices in a home.¬† (The attached checklist includes various potential hazards to look for in a home.)

While many fixes are simple and inexpensive, others might involve a remodeling project to help a senior remain at home. “That first, important step is to make an objective review of what needs to be done to keep them at home,” Beanblossom said.¬† “It’s one of the most important services that Home Instead Senior Care provides.”

Sources

1Are Americans Talking with Their Parents About Independent Living: A 2007 Study Among Boomer Women; http://assets.aarp.org/rgcenter/il/boomer_women.pdf

Look and See Signs: A Home Safety Review and Checklist

Seniors and their families might want to look for the following opportunities when performing a home safety review.

 

√ Examine dark pathways, corners and other areas where seniors regularly walk or read. Make sure all areas of the home have adequate lighting. Timed and motion-sensor lights outdoors can illuminate potentially dangerous pathways. Inside, consider Ott-Lites – which provide a high-intensity beam for doing detail work. Make sure that hallways and stairs are properly lit.

 

‚àö Avoid monochromatic color schemes. Contrast can help seniors with failing eyesight better navigate their homes. Large red and blue buttons over hot and cold water faucet controls will help prevent dangerous mistakes. A dark green or brown toilet seat and vinyl tape around the shower will make those fixtures more easily distinguished. Kitchen countertops should contrast with floors as well.

 

√ Look for ways to reorganize. Mom always put the black stew pot under the stove to keep the kids from breaking it. Perhaps now it belongs on a shelf beside the stove. And who says the eggs must go in the egg tray of the refrigerator? Perhaps it’s easier for dad to handle them if they’re stored in the meat tray. If that hallway table, which has always been a permanent fixture, is becoming a dangerous obstacle, relocate it.

√ Look behind closed doors. Many seniors will close off parts of a house they no longer use. Be sure to check those areas regularly for mold or water damage. Don’t close vents to crawl spaces.

√ Look for ways to simplify your senior’s life. Talk to your parents about why and how they do things then look for ways to simplify their lives. If your Mom’s immaculate floors are now regularly dirty, think about how she’s been doing that job all these years and offer options.

 

Rather than a heavy mop and bucket, investigate light-weight, all-in-one mops. If your senior is replacing appliances, look for smooth-top stoves and refrigerators with water and ice on the outside. Change door knobs to levers, or purchase grips that can go on conventional knobs. Convert single-bulb light fixtures to multiple bulbs so seniors still have light when one bulb burns out.

√ Consider security. Think about the potential dangers that lurk within your loved one’s home. Lock-in switches on thermostats and stoves will keep seniors with dementia and Alzheimer’s disease from harming themselves. Help them manage in their environment by installing a cordless intercom.

 

‚àö Keep an eye out for damage. Watch for signs that a senior is adapting his or her behavior to the environment. Look for towel bars or window sills that are pulling away or shower curtains that have torn from seniors using them to grab onto.

 

‚àö Look for ways to make entries safe. Make sure that railings into a home are in good repair and that steps and sidewalks are not damaged. Or eliminate steps altogether. Make sure that doors into a home can be set to stay open for carrying groceries and other items in and out. Install remote-control locks.

 

‚àö Is clutter taking over? Messy conditions and broken items are important warning signs. Remove area rugs and stacks of newspapers and magazines, or other potential obstacles.

‚àö Contact a professional senior-care service, such as Home Instead Senior Care, which can conduct a home safety review and serve as a second set of eyes for older adults.

 

This list was adapted from the home safety checklist developed by Home Instead Senior Care and enhanced in cooperation with the SUNY Buffalo School of Architecture IDEA Center, the National Association of Home Builders—Remodelers CAPS (Certified Aging in Place Specialists), the National Aging in Place Council, and aging-in-place consultant Louis Tenenbaum.

 

What You Can Do For Your Senior . . .For $500 or Less

Following are adaptive devices you can easily install and add to a senior’s home for a combined total of about $500. Prices are approximates and may vary by vendor.

1. Raised toilet seats with arms that lock onto an existing toilet provide height and support to stand. $90

2. Hand-held shower nozzle slips directly over a tub faucet. $24

3. Floor to ceiling grab bar provides a full range of heights to hold onto while sitting or standing up. It can be installed by the bed, in the bathroom or by a favorite chair. $150

4. Lever doorknob turner adapters attach securely to a variety of round door knobs to provide leverage for easy opening. $22

5. Lever handles attach to recliner chair handles to serve as an extension. $22

6. Various kitchen items are available including automatic openers that remove lids and open cans, jars and bottles. $50

7. Rubber ramps that are ADA compliant are often easy to install to most surfaces. Ramp stays in place by its sheer weight and can be moved from one opening to another. $36

8. Mobile stools are particularly useful to help seniors navigate a kitchen. $100.

Resources

Home Instead Senior Care – www.homeinstead.com

SUNY Buffalo School of Architecture IDEA Center – http://www.ap.buffalo.edu/idea/Home/index.asp

(Call 716-829-3485 Ext. 329 or contact idea@ap.buffalo.edu for technical assistance)

National Association of Home Builders—Remodelers – www.nahb.org/remodel

National Aging in Place Council – www.naipc.org(To find out how to use a reverse mortgage to fund a home remodeling project, visit www.reversemortgage.org)

Aging-in-place consultant Louis Tenenbaum – www.louistenenbaum.com

For adaptive devices:

www.dynamic-living.com

www.Elderluxe.com

www.beyondbarriers.com

For more information about Home Instead Senior Care’s 50-item home checklist, contact Becky Beanblossom at 502-515-9515 or beckybeanblossom@earthlink.net

Cutting Corners

January 1st, 2010

Pinched by the Economy, Older Adults Put Themselves at Risk

It seems as though problems with the economy are affecting nearly every area of our lives. Now, evidence is mounting that older adults are cutting everyday expenses to keep up with the economic downturn.

Local senior-care experts warn families to be on alert to make sure seniors aren’t cutting too deeply.  Warning signs include skipping medications, pulling the plug on air conditioning or heat and canceling social outings.

In a report released by AARP titled “The Economic Slowdown’s Impact on Middle-Aged and Older Americans,” 59% of seniors 65 and older surveyed said they’d found it more difficult to pay for essential items. Those are things like food, gas and medicine.  Nearly half (47%) said they found it more difficult to pay for utilities such as heating, cooling or phone service.  Forty-six percent have reduced the number of times they eat out and 45% cut back spending on entertainnment.1

Cuts of essential items such as food and medication should be of immediate concern to seniors’ families. Other reductions in spending can lead to less obvious issues.  One of the biggest problems that we see is senior isolation. That issue can really be magnified when the price of gas increases.

An older adult can get in trouble very quickly. Especially when families live a distance from their loved ones, or when Boomer children are busy trying to make ends meet themselves,  That’s why it’s so important that someone look out for the well-being of seniors. You want to know they are safe in their homes and eating properly, taking their medications and able to maintain their appointments and social life.

Many seniors are facing economic situations and decisions that they may not have needed to address before.  Families and CAREGivers can help provide guidance and support.

Many seniors are facing economic situations and decisions that they may not have needed to address before. Families and CAREGivers can help provide guidance and support.

Falling interest rates, fixed incomes and seniors’ fears of past hardships can influence how they react to the current economic slowdown. That’s according to Sheryl Garrett, author of Personal Finance Workbook For Dummies® and several other books on financial planning.  Some seniors may be running short on money but, for others, there’s always that fear of running out because they lived through the Depression.  They know how ugly it can get, she explained.

It’s important also for seniors to guard against fraud and too-good-to-be-true offers, Garrett advises. Seniors want to get the best that they can from their investments without falling for scams or overselling tactics.  Older adults also should beware of CDs and fixed annuities that can promise higher interest rates, but force seniors to lock in their money for longer time periods, Garrett noted. Always get a second opinion, she advises.

Seniors at all income levels may be facing choices they haven’t had to make in the past. They should know where to go for help before they put themselves or their health at risk.  Companies such as Home Instead Senior Care can provide transportation assistance and help around the home. We also serve as a second set of eyes for seniors’ families.

Families also can play an important role monitoring seniors who have decided to scale back because of the economy. Even seemingly innocent decisions, like cutting back a little on groceries or heat and air, can have a damaging impact.

So what signs should families look for to warn them that a senior might be putting themselves in harm’s way?

Here’s some information from Home Instead Senior Care and the National Association of Area Agencies on Aging. If you’re a family caregiver, ask yourself the following questions.

1. ¬† ¬†Is your senior’s home too warm in the summer and too cold in the winter?

2.     Is the lawn not getting mowed nor is the sidewalk getting cleaned in inclement weather?

3.     Is your loved one complaining about not being able to afford medications?

4.     Are home repairs not getting made?

5.     Is there a shortage of food in the house?

6.     Is your senior skipping doctor’s appointments?

7.     Is your older adult staying home more and becoming isolated?

8.     Is your senior cutting out entertainment?

9.     Does your loved one eat out less?

10.   Did your senior cancel a vacation?

If you’re an older adult experiencing difficulties because of the economy, contact your local Area Agency on Aging or Home Instead Senior Care office.  Or, if you have a financial issue, contact the Garrett Planning Network.

Speaking of finances, Home Instead Senior Care and the Garrett Planning Network have come up with some tips for ways that seniors can stretch their finances.

1.     Seek the services of an objective financial planner.  Sheryl Garrett, founder of the Garrett Planning Network, said it’s important for seniors to seek the advice of an objective fiduciary.

2.     Get a second opinion on investments and financial purchases.  If you’re approached about changing your investments or making a purchase, make sure you get another opinion.

3.     Contact your local Area Agency on Aging if you’re having trouble paying for food and gas.

4.     Get back to gardening.  The economic downturn is generating resurgence in gardening.  The over 55 crowd traditionally has been among the most avid gardeners.

5.     Avoid convenience foods, which are more expensive.  Watch for sales on fresh or canned fruits, vegetables and meats, which will be less expensive than convenience foods and better for you.

6.     Look for deals on generic medications.  Contact your pharmacist about ways to save money on your medications.

7.     Walk when you can.  If the gas prices are cutting into your social life, organize a walking club or walk with friends.

8.     Carpool when you can’t walk.  There’s economy in numbers.  If you can’t afford to drive somewhere solo or in pairs, contact others you know going in the same direction or the same place and share costs.

9.     Keep drapes drawn during the heat of the day, and minimize opening and closing doors in the cold of the winter.  Close off parts of the house you’re not using to cut down on utility costs.

10. Financial planner Sheryl Garrett says that the ability of seniors to live at home helps cut costs as well.  If you or a loved one needs assistance around the house, contact Home Instead Senior Care or visit the company’s Web site at www.homeinstead.com.

Please contact Home Instead Senior Care at (502) 515-9515 with questions.

Source
http://assets.aarp.org/rgcenter/econ/economy_survey.pdf

Resources

National Association of Area Agencies on Aging, log on to www.n4a.org or contact the organization’s CEO Sandy Markwood at smarkwood@n4a.org.
Garrett Planning Network, visit www.garrettplanningnetwork.com or contact Sheryl Garrett at Sheryl@garrettplanning.com.

The “40-70 Rule”

December 9th, 2009

Home Instead Launches Campaign to Get Seniors and Their Families Talking

Your dad’s neighbor just called to tell you that your 79-year-old father sideswiped his parked vehicle and nearly hit a child standing nearby. Was it an isolated slip-up or the sign that it’s time for your dad to think about giving up his car keys? More importantly, how do you begin the discussion about such a potentially volatile subject?

Sensitive issues like this prompted Home Instead Senior Care, a company serving Louisville, to launch a public education campaign called the “40-70 Rule.” This campaign will help adult children begin to address difficult issues with their parents such as driving, finances, independence and even romance. “The ‘40-70 Rule’ means that if you are 40, or your parents are 70, it’s time to start the conversation about some of these difficult topics,” said Becky Beanblossom, owner of the local Home Instead Senior Care office.

The campaign is based on research conducted in the U.S. and Canada by Home Instead Senior Care, which revealed that nearly one-third of adults in the U.S. have a major communication obstacle with their parents that stems from continuation of the parent-child role.  In other words, it can be difficult to get the conversation going because the child is still in a child rather than adult role with their aging loved one.

“Because of this obstacle, adult children may wait until an emergency or crisis happens before talking to parents,” said Beanblossom “Our goal with the ‘40-70’ campaign is to provide practical ways for adult children to talk to their parents now. We’ve seen lack of communication lead to misuse of medications, self-neglect and accidents.”

At the center of the “40-70 Rule” campaign is a guide of conversation starters for sensitive senior-care subjects, which is available free from the local Home Instead Senior Care office. The guide was compiled with the assistance of Jake Harwood, Ph.D., national author and communication professor from the University of Arizona who is the former director of that school’s Graduate Program in Gerontology.

Home Instead Senior Care has developed a public education campaign called the "40-70 Rule" which helps adult children and their parents initiate conversations about issues of concern.

Home Instead Senior Care has developed a public education campaign called the "40-70 Rule" which helps adult children and their parents initiate conversations about issues of concern.

Starting conversations early is particularly important for end-of-life issues such as power of attorney and wills, said Harwood, author of “Understanding Communication and Aging,” (2007, Sage Publications).  Other topics may need to be addressed as well, he said. “On the earlier driving instance, you could say, ‘Hey Dad, Fred from next door called to tell me about your accident.  What happened?’” Harwood said.  “Then take the opportunity to drive with your parent.  Even a short drive would help you gauge your dad’s skills and deficits.”

Such conversations should be broached with care, Harwood added. “It’s crucial to begin these conversations assuming ‘if’ rather than ‘when.’ Many older adults continue to drive safely as they age. So personal circumstances should determine how much discussion needs to occur,” he said.

In general, the Home Instead Senior Care survey found that Boomers have the most difficulty talking with their parents about independence issues, such as continuing to live in their own home, and that their parent’s desire to remain independent makes it challenging to address such sensitive issues as health (28 percent) and money (21 percent). The fact that many of these families are still in a parent-child rather than a peer-to-peer role makes the conversations even more difficult.

“It takes two to tango,” Harwood explains. “If an adult child always turns first to the parent in times of trouble, regularly needs money from the parent, or calls the parent every time there’s a crisis in the child’s romantic life, then they can expect the parent to continue acting out the parenting role.

“On the other hand, if the child becomes truly independent and stops acting out these behaviors, then the parent may be more likely to relinquish the parent role,” he said. “So adult children should be aware of the sorts of behaviors they are engaging in, which may cause their parents to act ‘parentally.’”

Physical space and place also influence communication, Harwood said. “A family reunion on a major holiday may well trigger a lot of memories and associations of childhood for all involved, not just the parents.

“It may be helpful for the children to mix things up a little if the parental behaviors are a problem,” Harwood said. “This might be achieved by taking a more active role in cooking the dinner or taking the parent out to the mall to buy them a gift just to change the dynamic and the setting in a positive way,” he said.

The bottom line is to keep talking, because the parent-child conversation can be so important in helping seniors adapt to changing life circumstances, said Harwood and Home Instead Senior Care’s Beanblossom.

Good communication also is vital to helping families know when it’s time to seek additional resources. “Oftentimes both adult children and their loved ones can benefit from outside help, such as a professional caregiver,” said Beanblossom. “But the only way that will happen is if they can talk about it.”

For more information about Home Instead Senior Care’s survey, including the results of the research and an executive summary, log on to www.4070talk.com.